Thank you all.
Probably the best test is to put the bumper back on and see what makes them light up, and if they stay on together with the high beam light.
they should not automatically turn on with the high beam in the frog lights. There is a switch on the left side of the dashboard that will turn them on. But like I posted above, they also turn on as passing lights.
You should check out the wiring diagrams here on the site.
http://matrasport.dk/Cars/Murena/vault/