Now, can somebody enlighten me - what is the towbar connection supposed to do to the fog-lights, and (more importantly) how ?
Well, if you fit a trailer, you woulnd't want the rear fog lights to work on the car any more, since they will tend to shine back in your rear window (particuarly if the trailer is tall). But you still want the trailer to have its fog lights come on when you turn them on on the car. So, your mechanic is right - if the car things a trailer is fitted, the rear fog lights on the car should stop working.
Whether your adapter could lead the car to think that the trailer is attached is unlikely, however. The detachable towbar has no more effect than... saying 'plllleease' for example
On your car, this all happens through the CAN bus since the rear fog lights are driven off the rear hatch module. This is a computer module with only CAN bus connection and power, and it controls everything on the rear hatch, e.g. central locking, wiper, - and fog lights. It has a single fuse, so when this blew for me (no idea why, it hasn't done it again), all of these functions stopped working.
The trailer socket should not affect the front fog lights at all.
This answers your question, I suppose, but doesn't help fixing your problem, I'm afraid.
Have you checked the bulbs and the fused?
Are you turning the switch in the right direction? Did you try kicking the right front tyre? That sometimes helps - if nothing else, you feel better afterwards.
We can take a look with the diagram when you and your car get home to DK in august, if you like?
- Anders